It has taken much to understand the environment in which I have been placed in. I grew up under very unusual circumstances. My mother gave birth to her first child at a very young age, and I arrived a year later. My parents were very poor and constantly fighting. My brother and i developed a very close relationship which would later dissolve because of a substance abuse problem. My parents divorced when I was five and my father was absent for a very long time. I had to leave my mother’s house when I was twelve and I moved in with my grandparents. I remained my my grandparent’s home for the next 6 years before moving out and leaving for college.
Even in the chaotic waves, my family is exciting. This is why I would like to photograph them. I would like to photograph them while they are functioning and when they are not. I want to photograph the poverty and the lavishness ( bought with credit). I want to photograph the environments that they are cased in and relate it all to me. Like Dubois once created, I want to make distant connections with my origins. I also would like to photograph them in the way that Goldin photographed her life; that crazy, mythic, dysfunction.
All of these things come at me fast, like snippets of ribbon thrashing around in a reckless storm. I watch it like a film, these memories, I watch my whole life as it blows up and rebuilds simultaneously. I am lost in the wreckage that I have born with these very hands. I am Sophie, Plath, Sexton, I am Goldin incarnate.
I become the starlet. I obsess and then grind like the shutter that rumbles with the twitch of my fingertips. I collect the pieces to mark my mistakes. I piss on my grave. I have wings of wax and broken legs and dyslexic story lines. I am one and only one and time is only a sequential medication. All of these lovers and all of these parties that turn into lovers, it all spins as I watch the explosions form in the sky.
I starve myself of the facts and mold myself over with the lies that chime me to wake. I cannot live with a thousand truths, but only a cascade of blurring fiction.
It is EGO that has brought me here, it is EGO that has kept me alive and wondering. EGO is my lover and my enemy and all of my friends. Pandora’s box, that pretty little nest of eggs, that hungry lips beg to taste, yes she sits on center stage. EGO watches as the world flops around without air.
My parents divorced at a very early age and I didn’t see my father very much. He worked hard labor for most of his life and then applied for disability. I didn’t understand what this meant, but later found out it was because he was a diagnosed manic depressant. Later, when I moved in with my grandparents he didn’t seem like himself and was in a constant battle with drugs and alcohol abuse. I remember him convincing me to take him to a store, and instead being led to what I can only describe as a crack house, where he bought drugs. I also remember how a week after my birthday he tried to slit his wrists and was committed to a mental institution. I think after that breakdown it was just normal for him to end up there. I would spend holidays there seeing him because he would always commit himself right before they began. He always said holidays were hard for him. I didn’t talk to my father for a very long time because of his issues with drugs, but after not speaking to any of my family for six months I came home and was happy to hear that he had been clean for months and that the hospital had finally gotten around to finding the right combination of meds for him to take. I was very skeptical but then another 6 months passed and my dad began gaining weight and calling me more. It’s been over three years now and he is still clean. I love him so much. I could only hope to be as strong as he is someday.
Naxos, 2012
water color, acrylic, and ink.
Santa Monica, 2011
Turner Falls, 2012
Turner Falls, 2012
The Hills Collapse
Suddenly, a gush of wind pushes me forward, I shiver. Everything is dark. My feet slip over rigid colonies as my hands finger through fields of fur and then over tumbles of scattered form. Bands of bristles tickle my face . My hair is misguided by the breeze. Some rushing erupts my ears. It is a constant, whooshing beat. Under my feet the earth cinders and cracks, above me exists whole colonies of purs and whistles and clatters. The whole forest bursts with a scream. Silence. Inhale: pine scented wind accompanied by wood-smoke and sweet honey vine. Breath in deep: some dripping aloe and wet earth. Zealous sensations of turned compost and pollen, moss, and that clear mountain air. Old stone exists throughout the forestry, it has a soul and a smell. Left the curtain, a beat, great hills collapse into dappled green granite, which rests upon a path of rivers and vines that curl up into tall tree tops that then bellow down into bushes of bright red. The sun flickers through fat, white clouds.
From Summer to Fall to Spring


Six months later I slit my wrist in the corner of our bathroom. I couldn’t stop fidgeting with the ring that was missing from my finger. I wanted to cut my whole hand off to forget about the horrible pains emitting from my stomach at the thought of little Jill never being born. The notion of having to pick myself up once again and learn how to love once again made the acids in my body shiver. The next few months proved to be the hardest experience in my life. I thought I would be stronger, after everything I had been through, but I was weaker than I had ever been, and refused to talk to any body. I found myself getting close to people and then pulling away with such a powerful force that I hurt some people a lot. However, all I could think of was how I was hurting, and how much more I hurt than them, how much more I hurt than any body. Even after this time I feel a pain that is so deep, I cannot stand to wake up most mornings.
I decided to take a trip back to Turner Falls this past weekend. I wanted to burn the whole forest down. I wanted to purge myself of that entire summer. Driving up I remembered how excited I was to be in love with someone that would take me all of the places I wanted to go, anytime I wanted to go. I did not think that four months later that same person wouldn’t have the time to even hold me at night. I thought about how beautiful the lengths of our bodies looked amongst fields of cloves and how his eyes looked so green in the sunlight. I thought about the terrible fights that eventually ended with me crying and him leaving, and as our car rode over hills I remembered how relieved I started to feel when he would leave. When we arrived I was so afraid of how I would feel, and what I would do, once we got to that 100 foot area Chris and I had made that summer. I expected it to be so beautiful and so sad that I would cry the whole weekend. However, a flood got to the area first and it exhualted such a wrath that the area Chris and I had once made love on was cluttered with crumbled picnic tables. The whole area was dead.
So with a sigh of relief I do what I always do, and what I do best. I snapped a few photographs, picked up my pack, and walked along past the wreckage.
Pole Dancing Gala, 2011





